Tuesday, 10 April 2012

Me without U !

"Even though I knew it from the start,
that there is someone who owns your heart,
Even if I see you are not sitting next to me,
I am still hoping someday you will ! "- Anonymous

Love is felt differently by each one. Its an experience each time you fall for someone. Some love stories start and end happily ever after however some start and wait an entire lifetime to end. Some people are left to just experience an abbreviation of love!

The world calls it Unrequited Love. It's the love that is not reciprocated or understood as such even though reciprocation is usually desired.

I call it the Helpless Hapless Love (H2L) and the lovers the Helpless Hapless Lovers (H2L). They Love but they can't confess. They feel close to that special one but they still can't share things. They are miles apart yet close! There is a little difference between Unrequited love and H2L's. The later are the one's who haven't confessed their love yet!

H2L's are virtually ardent lovers. They might love someone deeply,care for them, keep record of their smallest move but they won't let them realize this! These feelings never get a chance to be displayed in their purest form. The Love, affection grows inside them and becomes stronger everyday!!!

Its more baffling than you can imagine. They can neither supress their love nor can they confess. They shouldn't stay in their sweethearts life and can't even vanish out of it. They genuinely feel for someone but they have to hide it under the pretext of friendship.They fear loosing the friend they already have for the love they can only dream of getting. Helpless Hapless Lovers are not cowards, they are lovers who even before stating their love know the consequences of their declaration.

At an early stage, a lot of H2L's try to extirpate their feelings but it shows no sign of being in their control. Rather it grows by leaps and bounds. And what you see after that is the purest form of LOVE. Selfless, non demanding Love. In their little ways they keep making a difference in their loved one's life. Without keeping expectations of any reciprocation they go on loving them unconditionally.

To conclude I would just say for the H2L's, continue loving without expectations and the one's receiving loads of this love enjoy the position. ;)

PS : Keep wondering which one of these am I. :P


  1. After reading this, first song that comes to my mind is "Kahin toh hogi woh duniya jahan tu mere sath hai... "

  2. whatever u r..one thing i know for sure,ur thoughts r d best..keep it up..Lovely.

  3. i dun feel tht H2L's love is selfish..