Sunday, 27 November 2011

Luv Shuv....... ;)

Love is not finding someone to live with, it's finding someone you can't live without.

Let me now take you on a rollercoaster ride called LOVE. It has a lot of ups and downs. There are times when you skip a heartbeat. There are times when you cry and scream in anxiety. But at the end of the ride you feel you conquered the world.

It often happens that we come across couples who look good together. We tag them as ‘made for each other’. There is this magical chemistry that they share. You feel like observing them closely to get that magical element in your own life. I think instead of getting that secret ingredient, one should try getting that right person in one’s life. When you have the right person rest all falls in place.

90% of the guys I have met know what kind of a girl they want to spend their lives with. They are pretty clear about the qualities that expect. It isn’t that tedious for them to decide if they have fallen for someone. On the other hand girls often go bonkers deciding who to settle down with. They are not that choosy while falling in love although they show otherwise. The one thing that all girls secretly hope or expect from a guy is he should be mad for her. In fact, for most of the girls the case is that the guy falls for them and after a while she starts reciprocating the same feeling.

So when do you know that a guy loves you?
When he notices the smallest change in you, doesn’t get tired of complimenting you. When he figures out hundred silly reasons to just catch a glimpse of you. When he touches you and the feel of the touch is different. When his stares are quite longer than the usual. When your silliest joke makes him laugh like a nut case.

I surmise, LOVE isn’t that complicated.
You don’t have to follow a check list each time. All the love you want, reflects in his eye.  Whenever you are unsure, uncertain about the fact that he loves you, just look into his eye. If a guy loves you all that he wants is you, all that he desires is you. And his eyes truly say this. His eyes would just want to penetrate yours. His one stare would make you feel safe and protected.

Nothing more nothing lesss ….just look across in his eye and they would say it all……



  1. and wt abt u? whom hv u searched?

  2. Well, I believe this post's reply should be what I wrote few years back as a series of posts. Have a read of,

    And do check all the parts (links are there in the posts itself) .


  3. Hi Aman,

    I liked it. Nice post!
    The best description of Love or the best one to track if u r in Love:

    1. Thanks Neha. Yes, that's a post which I ask people to read when they come to me after a breakup and start telling that how unlucky they were being in love, not knowing that love never knocked on their door yet ever!