I have always been a person who never took life seriously. I lived in my own dream world with a belief that life was a cake walk. However, past 2 months have been tough on me and what emerged as an end result was a refined Neha.
I felt it was essential that I put up the lessons learnt on the blog, so as to document it for a lifetime......
Make Adjustments But Never Compromise.
There is a fine line between making adjustments and compromising. Situations might require you to mend yourself and make adjustments but never compromise. Be it on your principles, identity or your individuality.
Acknowledge the presence of a Divine Force
How much ever we deny, we are puppets in the hands of destiny. Sometimes what we plan is not really what happens. There is definitely a force in this world which is monitoring and directing our lives.Trust that divine force. It will help you get out of the worst situations.
Love yourself before loving others.
People will love and respect you only if you love and respect yourself.
No two people are similar. That doesn't mean one is wrong and the other is right. Never let others demean and change you. Don't be submissive.
Don't under estimate the power of your family.
Many times we do things against our own wishes just to please our family. But we fail to understand that our family's happiness lies in our happiness.
Never sulk put up a brave front.
I once read this somewhere: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. There is nothing in this world which cannot be tackled.
God doesn't give us what we can handle, GOD helps us handle what we are given. So never sulk, dodge your problems & face them.
Care a damn about what people will think.
Ten different people, might say ten different things. But do what your heart says. Your life is your most priced possession; value it.
Take your decisions. It doesn't matter if they are right or wrong. We are humans hence liable to making mistakes.
And the last one......
Everything happens for a reason. Although presently the reason might be unknown it is sure to give you immense happiness later . . . .
I felt it was essential that I put up the lessons learnt on the blog, so as to document it for a lifetime......
Make Adjustments But Never Compromise.
There is a fine line between making adjustments and compromising. Situations might require you to mend yourself and make adjustments but never compromise. Be it on your principles, identity or your individuality.
Acknowledge the presence of a Divine Force
How much ever we deny, we are puppets in the hands of destiny. Sometimes what we plan is not really what happens. There is definitely a force in this world which is monitoring and directing our lives.Trust that divine force. It will help you get out of the worst situations.
Love yourself before loving others.
People will love and respect you only if you love and respect yourself.
No two people are similar. That doesn't mean one is wrong and the other is right. Never let others demean and change you. Don't be submissive.
Don't under estimate the power of your family.
Many times we do things against our own wishes just to please our family. But we fail to understand that our family's happiness lies in our happiness.
Never sulk put up a brave front.
I once read this somewhere: When life gives you lemons, make lemonade. There is nothing in this world which cannot be tackled.
God doesn't give us what we can handle, GOD helps us handle what we are given. So never sulk, dodge your problems & face them.
Care a damn about what people will think.
Ten different people, might say ten different things. But do what your heart says. Your life is your most priced possession; value it.
Take your decisions. It doesn't matter if they are right or wrong. We are humans hence liable to making mistakes.
And the last one......
Everything happens for a reason. Although presently the reason might be unknown it is sure to give you immense happiness later . . . .
Let me add another - If you are born to be hanged, you can not drown!
ReplyDeleteWonderful!
DeleteTrue That Gal!
ReplyDeleteNice list, Neha :) Agree with all the points :)
ReplyDeleteAnother lesson- Let's learn all the lessons as that's what life is about :)
So true Anita! Lets keep learning and improving our lives from the lessons learnt!
DeleteTruely said, Life and Time are the great teachers. In last 2 years I too learnt many things. Patience, values, relations, facts about oneself are best taught by tough times.
ReplyDeleteLearning never ends. It is a continuous process!
Deletetrue that !
ReplyDeleteIndeed, life is the best teacher.
ReplyDeleteThey say that life's every step is a lesson in the making...you graduate in your grave
ReplyDeleteNice one..
DeleteLife is a teacher indeed. Can be mentor too
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